Wedding Day in Honnavar
By Gabrielle on Saturday, June 20 2009, 12:36 - Journey stories - Permalink
No sooner had we arrived in Honnavar than Maria announced some good news:
the next day, Lycie’s brother (Lycie is a member of the team) would get
married! Everybody would be at the party, and of course we were cordially
invited. As is the French courtesy, we made sure it would not bother them, but
we did not wait to be asked twice as we were delighted to go already.
The following day, at 9am, we were ready to leave for the church. On the
square, people gathered gradually. The brass band arrived, escorting the bride
and groom: white dress for the lady, black suit for the gentleman…how beautiful
they were! Lycie introduced us to them. They were not surprised and rather
happy to see surprise guests coming from Europe. The ceremony took place in
Kannada, the language spoken in the Karnataka region. The priest must have had
a sense of humour because we could quite often hear laughter amongst the
congregation.
Mother Teresa Band
At the end of the ceremony outside the church, the brass band ‘Mother Teresa
Band’ went back to work amid the general jubilation. The rest of the ceremony
took place just in front of the church in a long building converted into a
banqueting hall. Rows of chairs were lined up in front of the platform where
two big golden thrones stood under an arch that bore the names of the
newly-weds. The latter entered to great applause and went towards the cake that
was already awaiting them. They shared a bite, without forgetting a spoon for
the witnesses, and let’s get the party started! Was it the end of the beginning
or the beginning of the end? They danced in couples and farandoles, and then
the bride went out accompanied by numerous girls. The DJ started the first
hit-songs and men took over the dance floor. Each had a tremendous time and did
not worry about the glare of the audience. We were then invited to join in the
dance.
The music stopped because the bride entered in traditional clothes: a
magnificent dark red and gold sari and a flower headdress that covered her hair
entirely. It was all very beautiful! The meal was then served. Each person
stood up once their plates were finished, then went up on the platform to greet
the newly-weds and give them their presents before leaving…amazing! Our guides
made a sign to us to indicate that it was also time for us to leave.
The ceremony of flower garlands
The day was not over. Maria had planned for us and a few other visitors a
little trip to discover a Hindu temple not far from there. We were already
imagining falling under the spell of old stones…what a surprise when we
discovered a huge concrete complex overlooked by a gigantic Shiva (the second
biggest in India). Shiva was in the lotus position on top of an artificial
rock. We felt really small beside this giant covered in silvery paint. We
strolled amongst the diverse representations of the same kind of mythological
characters.
Shiva
In front of Shiva, there stands a freshly finished breathtaking tower. It has
numerous divinities cast in concrete and PVC windows where pieces of sellotape
have remained stuck. This tower gives access to the temple (which is all
golden). We entered along with the flood of numerous Hindus who had come to
pray and bring an offering. The sun was already setting and by chance we took
part in the ritual of the offering of light: the priest offered the five
elements to the divinity amongst the deafening noise of the bells shook by the
faithful.
The mix of fervour and kitsch that reigned in this colossal complex left us
doubtful but we dove with pleasure into the lively and popular atmosphere of
the occasion.
Gabrielle
(Traduction: Yolene Dabreteau)